Upside To Catastrophe

Water to Wine

In life, everything happens in cycles. Seasonal changes, good fortune and even romance. Our friends change, our jobs change, our lives change. And while we never can tell whats waiting for us around life’s bend, the one constant is that nothing stays the same. Not even the water. Here, in Cape Town, 2017 has been…

Wake Up and Smell The…

After almost two decades of dating under my belt, unrecognized award winning blog posts on the subject and a unique perspective on romance, Iv’e settled on the following: There are, by and large, two types of guys in this world: Those who won’t grow (up) and those who can’t grow (up). Everything in-between is a…

Kansas No more

Grow up. Words we often and unwittingly allocate to persons not behaving in a fashion appropriate to their age. Or more precisely… in line with our expectations. That we frequently contradict our own expectations, notwithstanding, the fact that we selectively choose when and where these values are to be enforced is even more mind boggling….

Happy Valentine’s Day Sucker

As I’m typing out the newest upside to my latest catastrophe after a long hiatus, my fingers taking to the keyboard like an old familiar friend, I’m hung over and I’ve just gotten news that my cat has died. Of course all of this had to have started somewhere and since it’s been a while…

Sea Food Diet

Heading toward the end of an era, I find myself reflecting on the many catastrophic dates, one night stands and relationships I’ve had to suffer over the span of my 20’s. For many who, like me, have trawled the seemingly endless ocean of men this world has to offer have done so for various self-serving…

Road to Perdition: (Tales from France)

Despite what I may have said regarding the matter of Paris, it was amazing in many ways. I would give serious thought to visiting her again. But whether it was Italy, Sweden or Paris, catastrophe was going to find me. As in the following cautionary tale… To fully experience Paris I knew I would have…

From Paris with Love: (Tales from France)

People following my blog often ask me, what I do for a living besides expose the world to the entropy of my life. Part graphic designer, part singer, entirely creative and a dweller of the deeper wells, I generally dabble in anything in the way of art. Speaking of deeper wells, for as long as…